Who am I?

Don’t get so excited I haven’t lost my memory, so kill the stupid joke in your mind and continue reading. I was just randomly thinking about this question ‘Who am I?’, obviously i gave myself an answer with my name. But that’s not what i was thinking about, its more than that.

I repeated myself ‘I am Nitesh Goel’. But still the question was the same ‘Who is he?’. Is he a good person? What does he do? Can he bring a smile on someone’s face? Do people like him or being with him? I thought about it but didn’t have all the answers. But i thought about finding them.

But how will i find them? Who am i to decide if i am a good person or no. I don’t really know if a got a smile on someone’s face lately. People are losing touch so i am not really sure if they like being with me or just avoiding me. Then i thought the only way to find the answer is to create them.

In todays fast life everyone is so busy that we don’t really bother to look around and know whats happening. We don’t have time for friends and families. Relationships are becoming weak, lovers don’t really love each other infidelity has grown a lot. We are not able to see the tears in the eyes of our loved ones or maybe we do but don’t have time to wipe them. And many more such problems which we keep reading on messages and facebook and a have thought which lasts for not more than 2 seconds, so we know these problems. But have you done anything towards it?

It reminds me of the famous story of Alfred Nobel. ‘Alfred Nobel was the inventor of Dynamite. He once opened the newspaper and was astonished to read his own obituary, titled ‘The Merchant of death is dead.’ The article disconcerted Nobel and made him apprehensive about how he would be remembered. And he lived his rest of the life in serving people and after him it was that Nobel Prize started.’ The question still exists to us “How do you want to be remembered?”. I think its time start our work towards how you want to be remembered. (i am not talking only about death but also behind our back).

Start by doing some simple things like these -:

Give a complete stranger a smile everyday (Even if he/she might think you are insane) it will help you maintain yours for the day.

Apologize to a friend you had fought with. Even if he/she doesn’t accept it, you will feel happy that you tried well.

Call up a friend whom you haven’t spoken to in a while and soon you’ll realize you will have many friends again.

Help elderly people, it gives the best feeling to make you happy.

And many more things like this. But not just reading it, Do it.

So for now till you get your answer of “Who am I?” give me a reply if you feel i am worth it. Good bad doesn’t matter, let’s get a reality check on this. You know me a lot or little doesn’t matter just write a few lines about what you think I am. Message me if you don’t wanna comment important is you do it.